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Verse 21 is part of the key verses. These are key social verses and wee just need to apply them in our lives. I am not saying that we should not take care of society, but we should not promote indecent and wrongful acts. At that time we do not understand God is all-hearing, all-knowing.
Verse 22 is very strange. When grace is given to a person, it empowers the person and promotes him while that is not the case in others. Sometimes one has no money, but he considers himself as the owner of a bounty. This verse says that the well-off and the opulent among you should not view they will not give ( any longer) to the relatives and the needy. Not you make a mistake, you swear correctly. He is slowly, but let them an excuse and forbear. And look at the positive aspects of him. Turn off your formal and Aristotelian logic in family matters. It cannot live by this logic. I came to your house once, you have to come to our house. You are opulent. God has given you grace. Let them excuse and forbear. God rewards for every pardon and forbears.
Forgiving
This means that I will erase the consequences. The father is a bad temper and it affects the child, I apply the grace so that I pardon him and treat him kindly. What God is doing? God makes غفران ( forgiving). That is to say, after four years, you see that there is no father's immoral effect on the child. He is God and He compensates.
If you pardon someone ( عفو) and treat him kindly (صفح) God will compensate.
His intention is not an enemy but is insiders. Whoever applies for his grace and pardons and freat kindly, he will receive forgiveness. This is especially important for those who work in the field of education.
She is worried and says that insulting can affect my child. You try to show your role of mother and also ignore his insulting. Actually, convince herself and say that your father is insulting, at least not beating us. Try to see God's forgiveness, if so, the insulting will not affect him.
Don't you like? ( الا تحبون )
Whoever applies for his pardon and forbear for his relatives and the needy, and to those who have migrated in the way of Allah, he will receive God's forgiveness. God reveals himself through discussion and conflicts. God is the one who forgave us. Look, the insulting didn't affect him and he goes mosque for saying the prayer. Frequently, we deprive our children of only not seeing the bounty. His father like this and his mother this, it is unclear what he will? It's wrong. So where is God? What is pardon? What is forbear? ( صفح)
Pardon ( عفو)
This means someone does something bad and you forgive him. ( ignoring)
صفح
Not only do you ignore one's bad work, but you also consider his goodness.
Blessed is that eye to see God amid the imperfections of the people.
عفو و صفح و غفران
Are about others, but forgiveness is about the individual himself.